Hatred as Temptation: The Evolutionary Trap and the Power of Restraint
- Aug 2, 2020
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Updated: 2 days ago

"Love can move mountains, while hate can only destroy them." -- Mr. John Duran
Introduction
Hatred is not an anomaly of the human condition; it is a primal feature. Since the dawn of human history, the emotion of hate has served a distinct, evolutionary purpose. Before the arrival of complex civilization, the ability to instantly distinguish between friend and foe, between the familiar and the foreign, was imperative for physical survival.
In the darkness of an unpredictable world, primitive emotions acted as psychological flashlights. They illuminated the environment in stark contrasts of black and white, ally and adversary. By polarizing the world, our ancestors were able to stabilize their group identity and navigate a hostile universe.
However, what was once a necessary survival mechanism has, in the modern era, become one of humanity's most dangerous temptations.
The Seduction of the Cognitive Shortcut
To understand why hatred is so prevalent in contemporary society—dominating news cycles, social media algorithms, and political discourse—we must understand the biology of decision-making.
Logic and critical thinking are acquired skills. They require immense cognitive energy, patience, and the ability to process nuance. Emotions, conversely, are inherited biological shortcuts. It is infinitely easier to obey the ignited flame of anger than to engage the prefrontal cortex to consider the long-term consequences of an action.
Hatred is tempting because it is easy. In an age characterized by a desire for comfort and quick answers, defaulting to hatred when encountering something different, foreign, or disagreeable requires zero intellectual effort. It bypasses the hard work of diplomacy, empathy, and pluralistic understanding.
Philomisia and the Illusion of Vitality
Furthermore, hatred offers a seductive illusion of vitality. Extreme emotions—whether profound love or intense hatred—make the human chassis feel deeply alive. They connect individuals to their raw, irrational id (the primitive, instinctual self).
For some, the intoxication of this emotional surge leads to philomisia—the love of hatred. The act of hating provides a false sense of purpose and power. This explains why unnecessary conflicts persistently plague humankind, even after centuries of philosophical and religious teachings emphasizing non-violence, from Stoicism to Buddhism. When the shortcut of hatred feels deeply gratifying in the short term, the masses will routinely abandon logic to indulge in it.
The Societal Toll of the Unchecked "Id"
When a society surrenders to the temptation of hatred, the consequences are catastrophic. The digital age has transformed the internet into an amplifier for tribalism. Shielded by screens, individuals engage in cyberbullying, gang-stalking, and cancel culture, leaving deep psychological scars on civilization.
This herd mentality divides societies. It mocks and ostracizes individuals simply for expressing harmless eccentricities or existing outside the artificial boundaries of a specific group's identity. When we reject pluralism and punish people simply because they do not reflect our own image, we compromise our moral integrity and the foundational stability of democratic civilization.
The Sovereign Response: Restraint and Ultimate Success
How, then, do we navigate a world addicted to the temptation of hatred? The answer lies in the disciplined application of restraint and the prioritization of long-term logic over short-term gratification.
Question the Flame: When you feel the instinctive surge of hatred toward an individual or a concept, recognize it as a biological shortcut. Be intensely skeptical of your own primitive urges. Do not allow your id to dictate your actions.
Recognize the Victimhood of the Hater: Often, people will project hatred onto you because your existence, your eccentricity, or your independence triggers their own deep-seated insecurities. You must recognize that their emotional turbulence is entirely their responsibility, not yours.
Transmute the Friction: If you have been the victim of targeted hatred, the desire for revenge is a natural biological response. However, retaliatory hatred only binds you to the person who wronged you.
The ultimate defiance against those who seek to diminish your worth is not vengeance. The most devastating response to hatred is the attainment of absolute, unshakable success. Build your empire, secure your inner peace, and render the hostility of others entirely irrelevant to your existence.






Thanks for commenting Mr. Leblanc. I agree with you that self-knowledge can often be the solution for the reduction of hatred in the world -- but due to a different reason. Everything has a consenquence, and in today's world, where you can be publicly condemned and shamed by a very large audience, people should think twice before publicly hating them, especially when it can cause cyberbullying, which in turn can lead to the hated's suicide, and then not only you would have to deal with being condemned yourself, but deal, as well, with regret. Self-knowledge, therefore, should be used when making long-term decisions, especially online, where people can act less "human" than in real life.
D...ear Mr. Tomasio A. Rubinshtein
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`...Hatred, thus, while functional to the nature of our id-ego, should be beyond rational to obey to in the eyes of the super-ego, most especially when the object of the tempting hate has followed the philosophy of most of the world's nations -- the philosophy of democratic existence.`...
I find interesting the points that you have brought out in this article; personaly, I have the feeling that the problem is more of a problem of being : `... more aware of who we are in relation to the other`...
Be coming more aware can ensure we start a truth seeking process that is enabling us to live on top of existing only; thereby, we…